Finding Love with Tarot
“Soulmates aren’t the ones who make you happiest. They are ones that you make you feel the most. Burning edges and scars and stars. Old pains and pangs, captivation and beauty. Strain and shadows and worry and yearning. Sweetness and madness and dreamlike surrender. They hurl you into the abyss. They taste like hope.” ~ V.Erickson
A big majority of my clients are people wanting help with their relationship, or with finding love. This prompted me to develop a “Finding Love” tarot spread, incorporating some lovers oracle cards. This will determine what you are blocking, how you give and receive love and what to release in order to bring love into your life.
Perhaps you are on the brink of meeting a soul mate, twin flame or karmic relationship.
The biggest truth is that one of these relationships isn’t better than the other—it just depends on what lifetime we are in, here on earth, and what lessons we currently are in the process of learning.
Sometimes we may experience none of these relationships in a lifetime, and in others we may experience all three.
A soul mate is someone who is karmically connected to your soul, incarnated to help you learn while you are here. Once the lesson is learned the karma is balanced and you can move on to higher growth. This is a kindred spirit, not necessarily in a romantic sense, someone who understands you, and you can have more than one!
And then there is the concept of the “twin flame” which is a bit different. This is a term developed from ancient mystics and sages, who believe that at the moment of a soul’s creation it was split in two halves, each exploring a different aspect of spirituality or duality. One side is masculine, the other feminine (although you can still have a twin flame if you are in a same sex partnership). A twin flame is essentially the other half of your soul.
Regardless of what type of romantic relationship we find ourselves in, there will be obstacles and challenges that have the potential to assist us in our growth and evolution.
The one important thing to remember through all of these types of relationship, is that if someone is trying to move on—it’s vital that we let them go.
Whether they are a karmic relationship whose only purpose is to come into our lives to be the catalyst of change, or if they are the soulmate whose here to challenge us to lovingly become the best person we can, or if they simply are our other half—there is no love that we will have to beg for or hold on too tightly to, out of fear of losing it.
Regardless of what type of relationship it is, the love we deserve is also the one that will want us as much we want it—because the truth is, if we do love someone, the only thing we can do is set them free, knowing that if it is meant to be—they will return.
And if they don’t, then they’re just one of the most beautiful lessons we’ll learn.
If you would like to know more, feel free to book in for a reading with me, call 0424 594 073 for details.